DON'T LET IT GO JUST FACE IT

Today I have received an e-mail from my well wisher who loves me so much that he keeps on sending me good notes/messages. I am thankful to my well-wisher and my God for this act of love. And the message which I have received today from my well-wisher was, -"LET IT GO"  what ever comes your way of love/live/success/promotion/job/relationship/friendship, if it disturbs you, comes your way, block your path, make your life miserable and disturbed, just 'Let It Go'. Forget every thing and move ahead, (good thoughts naa?) in your personal, professional  and social life if any thing create a problem just 'LET IT GO'

I have read this message several times today and started letting lots of things go out of my life, but some how I could not do it, because the things which I have deleted were very much there, I have tried to delete them several times but  of no-use, it's like, after deletion from your In-box and out box mail a copy remains there in your computer-hard-disk, like-wise, these memories also remains there in my LIFE, what can I do now?.

Things which were so hard to forget, I was trying from ages to forget them, but today it again came infront of me like it has never gone any where, these-memories were very much there , but yes I was fooling myself , so that it never rewind again, but of no use; [here one management lesson, if there is any situation you have to face it and if there is any problem you have to solve it, come what may; there-after take appropriate action and close the call.]. But to be very honest with you all, I could not close the call for the following reasons: 

1) The Problem will be solved on it's own, time is a big healer, 

     [har zakham sookh jata hai samay ke sath].

2) God-sent "Rehnuma" will come in my life and solve my problems 

     [like Yaksh Dev will come in my life and solve all my problem.]   

3) By getting older, I will loose my memory and forget every thing

     [Umar ke saath meri yaad-dast bhi dhimi par-jayegi]

But life is not a film or a TV serial, life is living every minutes/second of it, it's like 24X7  exercise  and each and every second you have to breath it, [I was told  that you have to breath 24000 time approximately within 24 hours of your day to survive]. 

I have sworn in today keeping you as my Judge that today I will speak the Truth, truth and only truth.  I am sorry sir, I am unable to Let It Go. There are so many things which happened in my life in last 50 years  and the conclusion is that I could not became a good Son, Brother, Student, Husband, Father, Friend, Disciple,  Neighbour, Citizen and a Human Being. I was very selfish, self centered, self-indulgent, see self, possessive, 

living for myself. I was living life like a Mathematics student, it's like: -

1) 1st you do good to me and then I will reciprocate  accordingly. 

2) What have you done for me, let me see, I will revert back later

3) What have you brought for me, after evaluation, will get you a gift

4) You always be good to me, I will respond as per my wims/fancy 

5) You love and sacrifices for me first, I will respond after judging.

I have realized one thing with my past experience that life is not a mathematics solving  exercise, you can not always make 2+2=4, for every situation and problem you need new solutions and answers and you can not send your duplicate or dummy to face it, you have to go your-self alone and face it up-front without any help, support and assistance from my family or friends. And with due respect to all my friends, I do not have to 'Let it Go', any more, but I have to come out of this situation with full mind, body and soul keeping the conscious mind awaken and like nature, the dead leafs will automatically go and new fruits and flowers will come of its own, lets be with the nature and welcome the spring season in our life with smile and courage. 

With Prayers,

Gurcharan. 

 

LIVING LIFE WITH CONSCIOUS MIND

Today I am seriously thinking about taking Sanyas and I see no reason why I should not go for it. Here, my Sanyas will be different, what our Baba ji has taught us that while living with the family & friends, you can still  renounce the whole-world or to be more precise & specific, renounce the world's materialistic  things, which are not at all necessary to survive in this world today. But few things, which are very important to survive, say for example: - 

A) Basic needs for living: 

     Jal, vayu, Agni, Dharti aur Akash [Water, Air, Fire, Earth & Sky],
     it's available in abundance, gifted to all Mankind by Nature & God.

B) Basic needs for survival: Food, Cloths and Shelter

C) Additional needs for comfortable living: 

     Good food, Cloths, Mobile, Debit card/s, TV, Fridge, AC's

     Washing Machine, Music System, RO-plant, Laptop/Palm top.

D) Extra needs for comfortable living: 

     Good Flat, Car, Club-membership/Foreign tour with family

E) Extra needs for more comfortable and safe future: 

     Fixed Deposits in the name of my family members

F) Extra-ordinary needs for more comfortable/safe future:

     Investment in Blue chip Companies/Gold/Jewellery

   

I am sure and confident, in this life I will not be able to earn so much to have every thing which I have mentioned above. But the most important thing here is that by all means one can not earn that much in ones whole-life, working honestly. Unless otherwise, like you win a lottery ticket "bumper-offer". But the big question  is, am I  so Lucky to win a jack-pot in this life-time? It sound so funny, un-realistic, un-practical and un-professional. How stupid I am even to think of all these things; why because, you do not even know about tomorrow and you are talking about secured-future, how absurd, -" Kal ka patta nahi aur chale hai bhawishya banane." 

One more thing, why I want to secure my future. Baba ji says, live for today, do your best honestly, sincerely and gracefully with-out hurting, cheating, bluffing, hiding and stealing any-one, ever and rest will come to place automatically and keep my-self, free, not pre-occupied,  with-out having deep relationship and engagement, because I will get a call from the BIG-BOSS/God Almighty, any time; and believe me, every thing will be left behind, [included all family members, cash, fixed-deposit, gold, property, shares/debentures, car, house-hold things, name, fame, designation, medals etc..] because, Antim-yatra per to Nir-vastra evam Aakele hi jana padta hai na. So why worry about secured future, let him [God-Almighty] secure our futute and we live our life for today only cent percent with our full Mind, Body & Soul and give our 100% to our family, our-job, our society, our friends and our-selves, keeping only one thing in our mind - "Mera Mujh mein kuch nahi, jo kuch hai so tera, tera tujh ko sopea kya lage mera". with an awakening and conscious mind.

     

Therefore, I have decided from today, I will live my life like a Sanyasi at the same time, perform all my duties with sincerity, honesty, hard work and without cheating, bluffing, hurting any-body physically or emotionally and giving my best and cent percent to what-ever I do. I will also consume the bare minimum things which  are actually required and necessary to survive [food, cloth and shelter only]. Please pray for me, so that I can stick to my resolution of Sanyas today with my conscious-mind and every new day of my life, till I live. May God Bless us all. Sab Da Rab Rakha.

With Prayers,

gurcharan.

Life being very kind to me

Today being a holiday, whole day I have spent at home, just thinking about my life, it may sound very possessive about myself, but its true. I was thinking of my past life of 50 years; you can call it "lekha-jokha" of my Life's deeds good and bad and I was shocked to see the result. To be honest, it was more of negatives rather then positives. I feel so ashamed and guilty of what all I have done. I have never been a good son to my parents, never a good brother, good husband,  good father & good friend. I have never given my 100% to them, I have always been a miser (kanjus) in relationship. But when I look back, I can not rewind my life again, I cant go back a live those moments again with them and yes few people have already left this world; so how will I go back to them and say I Love You So Much. I know it's too late but let me confess keeping you all (readers) as my judge. 

To begin with, it is my father who left us on 5th of May 2002. Bapuji "I love you so much and I miss you a lot". I have not done any thing for you when you were with us, that time I was young and arrogant and I was having no time for you, -"I am sorry Bappu ji, please pardon me, mujhe maaf karen". 

Second most important person is my wife who has given me the best years of her life which were full of love, affection, care, concern and always doing little extra to make my life more comfortable happy and peaceful. But I have not done even 10% of what she has done to me. But still I want to say her, -"I love you very much".

Third most important persons are my three beautiful daughters, who are the proof of my existence. Elder-one and the most lovable daughter of mine has just got married in February this year and I miss her a lot. -"I love you so much and you will always remain the third most important lady of my life" (after my mother & wife) . And I will always love her very much. -"Please pardon me Beta for not being a good father to you". 

My second and third daughters are also a great gift of God and it's the real possession of my life they are my real "Kuber Ka Khajana" and I don't want to loose them because they are the real wealth of my life. Oh my lord, give me enough strength, wealth & good health so that I can do my best to make their life more comfortable, safe, happy, healthy, peaceful of lovable and also get them what-ever they want in their life. -"I love you both very much and I want to wish you both all the very best in your life and all your dreams may come true Beta, Amen!"

Now comes the turn of my few very good friends who are the real jewel of my life and they are like Lord Krishna for me but I never became a real Sudama to them. I think I am more poorer then Sudama and I am sure they will excuse me for my one-track mind & selfish motives. I pray to God for their Happy, Healthy, Wealthy life and they will get what-ever they want in their life. And I want to say them- " I love you all and I will always there for you, ever, trust me".

I am feeling relaxed now, may be all of them will understand me and pardon me this time. And I promise, I will try to be a better Son, Husband, Father &  Friend, I promise. At the end, I request all of you to please pray for me so that I can become a better person and a good human being so that I can love them all hundred percent.

With Prayers, apka,

Sudama-gurcharan. 

ME AND MY VIEWS: WHAT IS THERE IN A NAME

ME AND MY VIEWS: WHAT IS THERE IN A NAME

WHAT IS THERE IN A NAME

I always wonder, what is my identity, is it my name or my father's name, place of birth, community, religion, nation or is there some thing else which makes me different from others. The God has created Human Beings and every individual is having a different finger prints. In India today, all the 110 crore people of India are having different finger prints, it's true.

But two people have done some thing different, they are: -

1) Ms. ARCHANA (PURAN) SINGH [Hindi Film Actress]

2) Mr. SANJAY (LEELA) BANSALI  [Hindi Film Producer+Director]

These two people have got the guts and courage to tell the world that this is our name which also add the names of their Father and Mother respectively. And believe you me, I have very high regards for both of them because they are different and their one act has made them different from rest of the world.

There may be many more people around the world who have done some thing different and not followed the conventional way of doing things in LIFE; we in Management call's it -"THINKING OUT OF THE BOX".

So next time if you want to do some thing different, do not just think, go ahead and do it. May God be with you.

Yours Sincerely,

Gurcharan

FRIENDSHIP A GREAT GIFT OF GOD TO MANKIND

God has been very kind to me and today I can say with pride that I have few very good friend who are a real asset and true wealth of my life. They have given me so much of love, affection, happiness, support and made all efforts to make my life more comfortable, enjoyable and full of love. I have always believed that my friends are good persons, nice human beings and understand life better than me. I feel like a poor Sudama, and all my friends are like  Lord Krishna, I pray to God and to Lord Krishna to always keep all my friends very Happy, Healthy, Wealthy and all their Dreams may come true, Amen!

In this life, I will not be able to pay back and do what they have done for me and my family so far. Today I can say without any hesitation that I have always been very selfish, greedy, self-centered, with one track mind and always looking for my interest, benefits and profits in each and every aspect of life, but as Babaji (Almighty) rightly said, Life is not mathematic and you can not live life with profit & loss account and mind alone; you have to use your sixth sense and heart also other-wise you will become a money-making-machine. To be honest, I have really become money-minded and my life's only target was to full fill my family's obligation and day to day needs and I was having no time for myself, my hobbies and my true friends.

Meanwhile, in my life's journey, while doing my job and performing my duties both personal and professional,  I have hurt many peoples on my way, and I have not kept my words/promises, not been honest to them and last but not the least, I have given them enough pain and sorrow. Many a times I have also broken their heart ruthlessly.

Today, when I look back, I can not go back to each and every-one personally for asking for their forgiveness, but yes I can confess with both my folded hands  in front of my Babaji/Almighty and you my new friend [those who are reading this confession] that please pardon me and excuse me for every mistakes, blunder, wrong doing and forgive me; because you are a very kind, perfect and good human being and a Gentleman. May God always  makes you happy, healthy, wealthy and all your dreams may come true soon, Amen!.

With Prayers,

Sudama-Gurcharan  

A Perfact Businessman and A Retail Tycoon

Today I have visited Big Bazaar at Ambiance Mall, Gurgaon along with my wife and what we saw was unbelievable, it took us twenty minutes to park the car and once we entered at Big Bazaar, it was true picture of  Kumb-mela, it was so crowded that we have had to spent more than 3 hours to finish our shopping, because there were so many items and variety with such a wonderful prices that it took so long to complete the shopping but we were very satisfied, and so are the other thousand of people who did their shopping along with us at Big Bazaar.

Mr. Kishore Biyani the founder & CMD of Big Bazaar and Future Group has created history in India Retail sector, total credit goes to him and his vision. When he first started Pantaloon Retail Store, at Garihat-Kolkata, nobody took him so seriously and then came the Big Bazaar which was a history and the "Sabse Sasta 4 Din" [January 23 to 26, 2010] will again make history.

We are sure and confident that Big Bazaar (on all India basis) will definitely achieve 100 crore business, in these 4 days. And today we can say with pride that every Indian will buy Sabse Sasta material in these four days from Big Bazaar.

We wish Mr. Kishore Biyani, his family and entire team of BIG BAZAAR Future group, all the very best for their great job, you have made us proud and we all love you and we are proud of you.

With Prayers

Gurcharan