IS THIS WHAT WE WANTED IN OUR LIFE?

There are two type of people in our society, one who make mistake and learn from it and never repeat the same mistake again; second category is of those people who learn from others mistake and never  commit such mistakes again. But still, we intentionally or unintentionally try to repeat our  this act of negligence, which is not well thought of. Although, we do have some other options open to us in that point in time, but since we are in a hurry and we wanted an instant results, hence we do not mind crossing our own line of control, which we have drawn ourselves, not meant to be crossed over; but knowingly pretty well that the end result would be negative and it will be very selfish move on our part to do such an act. Usually, we do such things only when we ourselves are on the target and we are so clever that, somehow or the other, we convince ourselves that, this is grave situation and we have to take a decision and it's  matter of life and death,  and our pet phrase for such a situation is: - "every thing is fair in love and war".

Over the years, we became so self centered, self indulgent and extremely  selfish that we want every thing  in life at our terms and conditions and we are not ready to compromise,  because neither we have the interest nor inclination to listen to other view's or to see their prospective; here our prime motive is to have, what we wanted and we do not care what others think about it, and to be honest, we don't mind it also.   

We are living in a civilized society where we have fairly well educated and sensitive people.  We have learned to live the life of hypocrisy, we do not mind amending society rules and regulations  in our favour and we have learned one lesson that, everything is fair, if  we have the power of M (money),  we can make our own laws, rules, regulations and the life will run the way  we want it to run, no questions asked.

It's a very sad situation, because this not what we have asked our God Almighty to bless us with. We wanted a fairly good life which must be full of love, peace and joy; but  such a life  based on these terms  and conditions, which is horrible,  pathetic and painful is not wanted. We never thought even once, what will happen when the same thing will be repeated with us and/or to our loved-one by some one else because yesterday we were  in a hurry and today Mr. X is in a hurry and tomorrow Mr. Y will be in the same situation.  And there is no end of these unethical, unprofessional, unreasonable and unwanted acts, which may look like a life and death situation on the face of  it,  but to be honest, life is not mathematics and it can not be predicted the way we want it to be,  because after all, it's His world and wisdom where everyone has to follow certain rules and regulations, weather it's  Nature, Sun, Moon or Man, everyone has to be within His command and  run under his instructions, come what may, which were made by the God almighty; after all,  human life is a great gift of God to this universe.

With Prayers

Gurcharan